The basic rules of this "religion" are founded on two principles:
"Let them say," and "Don't let them say." At these principles' root is the error of seeking to please others and feeling one has to assume the identity and lead the kind of life that others expect. In other words, a person who adopts such a goal has ceased to use his mind and his freedom of thought. He will have to change himself constantly in relation to other people's expressions of praise, affection, interest, intimacy and friendship. Such concerns as, "I want people to say this about me", and "I don't want anyone to say that about me" prevent him from using his mind and cause him to make every effort towards the impossible goal of trying to please everyone. He is forced to live not in accordance with what he sees as very true and of which he does not have the slightest doubt, but in accordance with what society demands. However, the Scriptures says that a life not founded on seeking to please God will certainly lead to Hell the one who lives it.
"And thou my son Solomon, know the God of thy father, and serve him with a perfect heart, and a willing mind: for the Lord searcheth all hearts, and understandeth all the thoughts of minds. If thou seek him, thou shalt find him: but if thou forsake him, he will cast thee off for ever." 1 Paralipomenon 28:9
Despite the clear truth revealed in this verse, the importance of winning God's favor has been almost totally lost in today's society.
People have come to see themselves as attached to others rather than to God. At the root of this is human beings' endless desire to show off and receive praise.
People's Passion for Showing Of and Earning Praise
The human ego wants to show off and receive praise from others. People, still unaware that God has created them as His servants and that they survive by what He gives them, want to receive praise and are eager to obtain a selfish superiority by doing all they can to show off to others. They believe that they possess their talents by their own power and that they can obtain everything they want with their own hands. The Scriptures gives us an example of this wrong state of mind:
"The Lord maketh poor and maketh rich, he humbleth and he exalteth." 1 Kings 2:7
"But God said to him: Thou fool, this night do they require thy soul of thee: and whose shall those things be which thou hast provided?
So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich towards God." Luke 12:21
From these verses in the Scriptures, we can see that a life based on ostentation and praise is the selfish passion of faithless people. They think that the purpose of life is to receive praise from others, show off their wealth and become richer; and when they are able to do so, they believe they have gained something. Elsewhere in the Scriptures, God tells us about people who have this distorted way of
thinking:
"If any man teach otherwise, and consent not to the sound words of our Lord Jesus Christ, and to that doctrine which is according to godliness, He is proud, knowing nothing, but sick about questions and strifes of words; from which arise envies, contentions, blasphemies, evil suspicions, Conflicts of men corrupted in mind, and who are destitute of the truth, supposing gain to be godliness.
But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world: and certainly we can carry nothing out. But having food, and wherewith to be covered, with these we are content. For they that will become rich, fall into temptation, and into the snare of the devil, and into many unprofitable and hurtful desires, which drown men into destruction and perdition. For the desire of money is the root of all evils; which some coveting have erred from the faith, and have entangled themselves in many sorrows." 1 Timothy 6:3-10
The reality is not as it appears, however, to those who think it a virtue to be in the majority. God did not create the world so that individuals could contend with one another and gain superiority in selfish pursuits; He created it to test who would do the best things in their service to Him. It says in the Scriptures:
"But without faith it is impossible to please God. For he that cometh to God, must believe that he is, and is a rewarder to them that seek him." Hebrews 11:6
For this reason, the most pleasurable, happy and joyful things are those that are done to win God's favor, because a human being can be basically satisfied by the joy that faith brings. All else brings a short-lived sense of satisfaction that will be of no benefit in the Afterlife.
Yet some individuals reject true religion and prefer to worship people they idolize other beings apart from God and as a result, base everything they do on this foundation. They are always ostentatious, showing off to others the things they have been given. But ostentation puts great material and spiritual burdens on an individual. It wearies his mind and body and distances him from his very nature, turning him into someone who acts inhumanely towards others, treating them harshly, with anger, grudging insincerity and hypocrisy. This person may even start performing acts of worship that require sincerity of heart so that others will say that he is a devout Catholic. In the Scriptures, God tells us of people who practice religion as lip service to others:
"Woe to you scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites; because you are like to whited sepulchres, which outwardly appear to men beautiful, but within are full of dead men's bones, and of all filthiness. So you also outwardly indeed appear to men just; but inwardly you are full of hypocrisy and iniquity." Matthew 23:27-28
Combining the desire to please others with faith in God is a breach of religious sincerity. In His sight, it makes an individual insincere. By paying too much attention to what people think of him, he sullies his faith with ostentation and hardens his heart with the selfish desire for praise. As a result, he lives for worldly gain and profit and loses his fear of God. Totally unaware of the punishment He will give, he will employ the fine moral qualities he should use to earn God's favor as currency for worldly gain and to bring opportunities his way. Everyone who "worships" people adjusts his life to these principles.
I will give some examples of his distorted mentality as it appears in daily life.
THE "LET THEM SAY" PRINCIPLE
In an ignorant society, people feel continually obliged to live with regard for what others say, will say, or have said. As a result, they do not think about God and are far from acting according to sound moral principles. Their thoughts are divorced from religious morality, and they know nothing about the well-being that religion can give, having fallen into a chaotic, contentious environment where right and wrong are confused.
According to this distorted mentality, only human beings have the right to make laws and establish rules. All the things that God has commanded or prohibited are removed from human life, one by one. For this reason, an individual who practices the precepts of true religion and disregards any argument that detracts from the importance of winning God's favor, will immediately attract notice of ignorant people and who will treat him badly. But a person who is sincere in his religion will take no notice of this adverse behavior because his only goal in this world is to win God's favor.
But concerns for what others will say or think may influence those whose faith is weak. This is why they cannot fully practice the moral virtues of the Faith and in their thoughts and actions, why they resemble idolaters more than real Catholics. These individuals live their whole lives greatly deceived by a perverse understanding of the "facts of life" that prevents them from embracing the real spirit of religion.
You cannot drink the chalice of the Lord, and the chalice of devils: you cannot be partakers of the table of the Lord, and of the table of devils. 1 Corinthians 10:21
"No man can serve two masters. For either he will hate the one, and love the other: or he will sustain the one, and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon." Matthew 6:24
God tells us the fate of these people:
"But because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold, not hot, I will begin to vomit thee out of my mouth." Apocalypse 3:16
This false religion affects people like an infectious disease, preventing the many of weak will or personality from remembering God or seeking His favor. Under the influence of the majority, they regard their erroneous thinking as so normal that they don't even feel the need to distance themselves from it.
Describing the fundamental rationale of this false religion , which holds sway over its members and people of weak faith, would help people discover the distorted thinking they had fallen into. And by the Will of God, the sincere could save themselves from this false religion. The following passages give some stock examples of the "Let them say" mentality characteristic of the "peopleworshippers."
"Let Them Say I Am Good-natured"
The Bible has many statements about the importance of being morally virtuous. But the basis of this good nature must lie in their desire to win God's favor.
However, ignorant people live in a system that works in just the opposite way. An individual who practices People-ism has memorized the rules of his religion and thinks that by telling people what they want to hear, he is doing the right thing. Even if he is good natured, at the basis of this behavior is the desire to exert a positive influence on others, get them to like him, and gain from them something of material value.
He will do everything he can to achieve this goal; he will be perfectly good-natured. For example, if need be, he will help his neighborhood poor to display of his compassion; and will tell everyone how important honesty is for human beings. He will let himself seem to be modest. He will speak about the great harm evil brings upon humanity, appearing all the while to be happy, loving and patient.
People trust him for the appearance he presents; they like him and befriend him. They will tell all their friends how good-natured he is, give many examples of how he has helped others, shown compassion to a poor child or respect for some elderly person he met on the road. They describe to others how he took to the police station a wallet he found on the street, gave his seat on the bus to a pregnant woman even though his own feet were sore, turned up on time for work in the morning without seeming tired even though he stayed late at work the night before. This individual performs all these acts of self-sacrifice merely so that people will say he is good-natured , hardworking, compassionate and honest.
Another person will go to a rehabilitation center and bring little gifts to the people that live there. He will bring homeless children various things to make their rooms homey. Then, so that other people will know what he has done, he advertises his kindness to his close associates in an appropriate way. Or he may make a considerable donation for the renovation of a particular department of a hospital.
All these acts are laudable, of course, but it must be re m e mbered that they are "good" only if performed to earn God's favor. If done to bring an individual praise or appreciation, to make him appear good, generous and just, they will bring him no benefit beyond a small worldly gain. If conditions grow bad for him, or if acting good-natured turns to his disadvantage, he can immediately give up being "good." But things done to gain God's approval are permanent and enduring, because they are done unconditionally.
Moreover, it is very easy for anyone to turn from his error and change his intentions. An individual who realizes that "people worship" brings him nothing but harm must simply repent and intend to seek God's favor. This decision takes only a moment and from that moment, all the good things a person does with good intent hardly count for nothing, but are written in God's book to be rewarded.
The important thing is, that person fears God and strives to do His will. It's very important to recognize the power of God and to fear Him as one should, because when a person does not fear God, it is not clear how he will act or what kind of decisions he will make. If he requires rewards for doing good, he becomes instantly ill-natured.
It does not occur to him that his behavior will receive punishment from God. He may exhibit one character one week and a wholly different one the next. According to the laws of people-worship, he may return evil for evil and injustice for injustice. He also begins to apply the merciless laws of the religion he believes in. And because, as we said before, the deities this religion worships are only human beings, his human conscience functions accordingly. For this reason, he gives no importance to the kind of moral behavior expected by God. However, Christians also treat pitiless, cruel and unjust individuals who behave badly towards them as their moral virtue dictates and under no conditions do they compromise the virtuous behavior that pleases God.
Therefore, never do believers diverge or withdraw from their path of moral virtue. Always humane, they never lose their religious convictions, because their life aim is based on their desire to be servants
of God. In the Bible, God describes this kind of moral virtue:
Take heed that you do not your justice before men, to be seen by them: otherwise you shall not have a reward of your Father who is in heaven. Therefore when thou dost an almsdeed, sound not a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may be honoured by men. Amen I say to you, they have received their reward. But when thou dost alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doth. That thy alms may be in secret, and thy Father who seeth in secret will repay thee. And when ye pray, you shall not be as the hypocrites, that love to stand and pray in the synagogues and corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men: Amen I say to you, they have received their reward.
But thou when thou shalt pray, enter into thy chamber, and having shut the door, pray to thy Father in secret: and thy Father who seeth in secret will repay thee. Matthew 6:1-6
Let Them Say that I Am Rich, Generous and Like to Spend Money
In "people-worshipping religion"; much importance is placed on wealth. In this false religion, wealth means power. A person with power in society has a few highly valued privileges; the richest person is the most popular, most deferred to, and enjoys the most friends. Such a person thinks that wealth will open wide all the proverbial doors for him. For this reason, some individuals expend lots of effort putting this aspect of themselves in the foreground.
They have a number of ways to get people to notice how rich they are and how they like to spend money. They never miss the opportunity to strengthen the impression of how wealthy they are, they are lavish, sometimes extravagant, in spending money on clothes, cars and houses. They decorate their homes in a way that society, other wealthy people, would appreciate. If society chose to decorate with the color green for a particular year, these individuals choose green too, even if they don't like it; and if red is in vogue, they use red. Wanting everything to be just right becomes a matter of pride for them. Influenced by the "let them say" and "let them think" mentality, they spend their whole lives doing things to display their wealth. They spend their summers in the most popular vacation spots and go skiing in the most stylish winter resorts. They send their children to school abroad and buy their clothes from other countries. In their circle of acquaintances they let it be known that "they have money too" and so buy an expensive yacht. Even if they do not sail it themselves, they moor it in a harbor to show it off. If there are people they want to impress, they take them sailing, treating their guests to the best food and drink to emphasize that they do not lack for anything.
If a person has money, of course there is nothing wrong with acting in this way if one wants to; in fact, if he takes real pleasure in doing these things, they are blessings. But most of the people we have been talking about think in this distorted way. They want only one thing: For people to observe that they are wealthy, generous and like to spend. This gives them a sense of selfish satisfaction, boosts their morale and increases their motivation. If they do not hear what they want to, they become upset, discouraged, depressed and take no pleasure in anything. But were they asked to show the same eagerness in teaching others religious morality and increasing the number of believers in God, probably they would decline the invitation.
This is because they are more interested in winning others' approval than earning the favor or God. In this, they would find nothing in terms of material gain or earning others' praise.
But on the Day of Judgment, they will leave behind all their possessions and enter our Lord's presence alone. They will leave behind all those individuals they tried to please and ingratiate themselves with, to the point of deifying them none of whom will be of the slightest assistance. They will defend themselves before God, Who tells us what awaits these adherents of false religion on the
Day of Judgment:
Let Them Say I Am Their Friend
People who practice this false religion befriend with the most attractive, wealthy, and famous people in their social circle. They give no importance to their moral character. To be known as the friend of a beautiful woman, for example, they endure all her caprices. To shine in her social circle, they'll do everything they can to be known as of that particular person's best friend and try to be seen with her.
Anyone with this mentality does the same thing when he makes friends with someone wealthy. He feels pride to talk and laugh with him sitting at the same table; she loves it when that person is familiar enough to call him by his first name, joke with him, call him or visit his home. He likes to be seen getting into his friend's car. He counts it a great success when people say about him, "That rich man's friend is very nice. How lucky he is!" He thinks he is important for having that man as a friend and just to be called "his friend," is prepared to take part in all his whims, even if they are sometimes cruel and selfish.
However, human beings must found their friendships on God's will, because they can gain honor and power only by being His servants. In the Bible, God tells us that all the honors and positions that people seek belong to Him:
"Thine, O Lord, is magnificence, and power, and glory, and victory: and to thee is praise: for all that is in heaven, and in earth, is thine: thine is the kingdom, O Lord, and thou art above all princes. Thine are riches, and thine is glory, thou hast dominion over all, in thy hand is power and might: in thy hand greatness, and the empire of all things." 1 Paralipomenon 29:11-12
A person can be harmed and humiliated merely by forming worldly friendships based on the pursuit of these goals. Friendships established only to attract attention and stir up envy will never meet one's true expectations. So long as an individual does not live according to the moral teachings of the Bible, he will never know real friendship, faithfulness, or loyalty. Even if he appears to have gained a few worldly advantages, friends who do not practice the morality of the Bible will cause him great loss in the Hereafter. In the Bible, God reveals this truth:
My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother: That grace may be added to thy head, and a chain of gold to thy neck. My son, if sinners shall entice thee, consent not to them... The turning away of little ones shall kill them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them. But he that shall hear me, shall rest without terror, and shall enjoy abundance, without fear of evils. Proverbs 1:8-10,32-33
Let Them Say, "He Always Knows What's Best"
For someone to be called an economic expert, that person must give correct answers to every question he is asked on this subject. To do so, he must read and follow current events day and night. A person supposed to know about history must know every detail about some important event and whom it affected.
Again, this would require years of effort. Someone who claims to excel at sports must train for hours every day, win every competition and, if necessary, shunt his friends, family and social life to the
background.
But it must be remembered, these are worldly pursuits. Of course it's a good thing to work hard and be successful in the world. But if, in the pursuit of these things, the will of God is forgotten a person has a lot to lose. If he gains a certain amount of success in this world but has not lived to win God's favor, he will unless God wills otherwise forever lose his place in the Afterlife.
Our Lord has the highest knowledge; it is absolute. Therefore, a successful person supposed to know everything about everything in his chosen field must make an effort to win God's favor by being His servant and living a moral life. Real salvation is possible only in this way.
Let Them Say, "He Adapts Himself to Every Environment"
As we have been saying from the beginning, a person in an ignorant society feels obliged to follow its rules and lifestyle. He tries to do what his circle of acquaintances want him to and be the model of the sort of individual they want him to be. Often he won't hesitate to do something against the Churches moral teachings or act in a way that will bring him harm. He does not want to go contrary to one of the mantras of the religion of people worship, and wants others to say of him that "he adapts to every environment."
For example, a polite young man may have rebellious and disrespectful friends; although he may not be that way himself, he will try to conform to their lifestyle. He compromises his character because he does not want to be thrown out of the group and accused of being "not with it" or a "mommy's boy."
Even though he knows that cigarettes are bad for his health, he will start smoking because his friends do. Some may even believe in God but, because their social circle is not religious, may present themselves quite differently to his group. They will stop saying their prayers in order so as not to be expelled from the circle, all to win and keep the favor of others and keep them on his side. Those who behave in this way must consider the harm they are doing to themselves in this world and the world to come; they must fear that day when they will give their accounts to God.
To close one's eyes to immorality and turn away from what is right, with the excuse of fitting in with one's social group is very dangerous even from the point of view of the community. This distorted thinking lies especially at the root of the moral degeneration of young people. Suppose you met some who used drugs, were undergoing treatment for alcoholism or earned their living by prostitution.
Ask why they live the way they do, and one major reason they gave would be that they "had to fit in" with their friends. In the sight of God, however, no human being has any such duty towards another. God holds people responsible only for earning His favor and obeying His moral edicts.
Everything else done apart from this purpose will simply put people on the wrong path and induce them to do things against creation. And their lives will be consumed by pangs of conscience and
anxiety.
So far we have considered a few basic examples of the "let them say" principle of people-worship. But this false religion is not limited to these non-believers. Nearly every step taken by people who practice this "religion" is to get others to think well of them and win their approval. Their thoughts are obsessed with this goal, and they spend every moment in this pursuit.
But even though they live in the same community, individuals with sincere faith are different from those in the society of ignorance. They may appear to do the same things, yet their intention is not directed towards other people, but towards God. They realize that no human being has any power, and that all power belongs to Him.
They may do things to please others also, but their purpose is to win God's favor. As God has commanded, they act with moral propriety towards others and by so doing, they win God's approval and also make others happy.
